Dealing With Disappointment
By: Daniel N. Brown
Have you experienced any disappointments lately?
What a dumb question, huh? Life is full of disappointments. But, it’s not so much what happens to us, but how we handle it. When you receive dashed expectations, it will be at that moment when you decide how to react.
When things don’t prosper or succeed according to our plan, the first thing we feel is disappointment. This is normal. There is nothing wrong with feeling disappointed. But, we must know what to do with that feeling, or it will move into something more serious.
The devil would like for nothing more than for you to lie in the pit of disappointment for as long as possible. This way he can cause the seed of discouragement to grow. From there, he will plant seeds of depression, and so on.
Here are the progressive evil D’s in order:
1. Disappointment 2. Discouragement 3. Depression 4. Despondency 5. Despair
Disappointment, if left undelt with, will inevitably lead to discouragement, then to depression, then to despondency, and then on to despair. It’s in despair where people have lost all hope and could eventually commit suicide.
Friends, if you are still feeling disappointed, or even discouraged from dashed expectations in 2004, let me encourage you. God is in complete control and He knows right where you are.
If you have been born again you are a child of the Most High God and He wants to take care of you. Jesus said, “Take no thought for your life.” (Matthew 6:25) and “Be anxious for nothing.” (Philippians 4:6)
God doesn’t want you to worry. He wants you to trust Him because He has a perfect plan for your life. (Jeremiah 29:11) Yes, we are to plan our way but the outcome is totally in God’s hands. (Proverbs 16:9)
Remember, discouragement is nothing more than dashed expectations. Don’t put too much expectation on anything or anyone. People and things are fallible. Only God is infallible. Trust Him with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding for He makes all things work together for your good according to His purpose for your life. (Proverbs 3:5, Romans 8:28)
Daniel N. Brown is the publisher of the "Living the Abundant and Prosperous Christian Life" Newsletter. A free weekly publication that teaches people how to live the abundant and prosperous Christian life. Receieve a free copy of Dan's 14 page report entitled, "5 Biblical Keys to Outrageous Prosperity," when you sign up. www.secretplaceonline.com
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